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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 22334" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>I do not mind him having his own time and friends. point is the lying, and him sending her the romantic email inviting her to call. given his history...it makes me uncomfortable. I did not feel left out of their meeting. I felt it was inappropriate to have them meet the way they did and the follow up email from him to her was over the top. </p><p></p><p>on paper he would be 98 percent good and two percent unacceptable. however if he continues to lie or meet women to rescue and romance...the two percent bad will outweigh any good he is. he would shatter my trust and hope in him. </p><p></p><p>someone else could be also 98 percent wonderful and their two percent could be drug use, verbal abuse, they go to bars at night, or some other thing. all those things I would not accept either. I guess we all can put up with different stuff. cheating and lying totally violate my boundaries. I will never overlook those tendencies and cannot respect that. </p><p></p><p></p><p>time will tell.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 22334, member: 97"] I do not mind him having his own time and friends. point is the lying, and him sending her the romantic email inviting her to call. given his history...it makes me uncomfortable. I did not feel left out of their meeting. I felt it was inappropriate to have them meet the way they did and the follow up email from him to her was over the top. on paper he would be 98 percent good and two percent unacceptable. however if he continues to lie or meet women to rescue and romance...the two percent bad will outweigh any good he is. he would shatter my trust and hope in him. someone else could be also 98 percent wonderful and their two percent could be drug use, verbal abuse, they go to bars at night, or some other thing. all those things I would not accept either. I guess we all can put up with different stuff. cheating and lying totally violate my boundaries. I will never overlook those tendencies and cannot respect that. time will tell. [/QUOTE]
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