Mouseyone:
Welcome and sorry you have to be here but glad you found us.
What is your son's mental illness and how long has this all been going on?
Do you have any support for yourself? A spouse? Other children?
I would think it would be beneficial for you to get in to see a therapist for yourself to help you deal with your son's behaviors. You need to take care of yourself first. No matter how much we worry, it does NOT help our young adult children at all. I know I'd gladly worry more if it did.
You will get good advice here and support. You are not alone.
