Hey
I sit here tonight and feel your pain, truly I do. I have no words of wisdom only to say that as hard as it is I wonder if you need to stand firm and not do it. I think that maybe it just moves the inevitable further along.
My son (19) got thrown out of ours, both sets of grandparents, 1st houseshare leaving £3k damage, a friends mum for stealing, a homeless hostel for not abiding by rules and only today he has left his 2nd houseshare after being given notice at the weekend, once again for not abiding by the rules. Tonight he is once again homeless but is with his girlfriend for a night. Tomorrow who knows? It hurts. It hurts more when he asks why I won’t help him. He too does not seem to understand actions and consequences and I worry about his mental health. I ask myself ‘how many times? When will he get it? Understand?, where and when will this end’. He hates being alone and I hate it for him but what else can one do.
Maybe, just maybe, as they sit alone with nothing and no one will they ‘get it’. It’s a gamble, a painful one and not one I am totally comfortable with but I have no more ideas for any of us! Hang in there, you are not alone!! Xxx
