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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 726154" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Red Cedar;</p><p></p><p>How my heart goes out to you. First of all a very big hug. Second you have apologized enough. Nothing you did in his childhood can compare with what he has done to you. </p><p></p><p>He is an adult and an addict. Mental health issues asside. He knows how and where to get help and chooses not to. </p><p></p><p>If love could cure this none of us would be here. </p><p></p><p>Be good to yourself, read and go to support groups focus on yourself. </p><p></p><p>If he accepts your gifts and you feel good about that great. We all do what our hearts can bear. Detachment is a process. It is not a one and done. It is a daily practice on a continuum of emotions and human frailty. </p><p></p><p>I have be through hell and back with my son and we are still in the throws of it all. </p><p></p><p>You are making good choices and being strong with your boundaries and expectations. This is good. It’s not easy but it is what will help him if anything will. </p><p></p><p>He is highjacked by his monster of addiction, this will make his MH unstable and make him lie, cheat and steal and say horrible things. It is what it is. you didn’t Cause this, you can’t Cure this nor can you Control this. It is up to him and I suggest you get out of his way. </p><p></p><p>Be good to yourself and know you are not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 726154, member: 21895"] Red Cedar; How my heart goes out to you. First of all a very big hug. Second you have apologized enough. Nothing you did in his childhood can compare with what he has done to you. He is an adult and an addict. Mental health issues asside. He knows how and where to get help and chooses not to. If love could cure this none of us would be here. Be good to yourself, read and go to support groups focus on yourself. If he accepts your gifts and you feel good about that great. We all do what our hearts can bear. Detachment is a process. It is not a one and done. It is a daily practice on a continuum of emotions and human frailty. I have be through hell and back with my son and we are still in the throws of it all. You are making good choices and being strong with your boundaries and expectations. This is good. It’s not easy but it is what will help him if anything will. He is highjacked by his monster of addiction, this will make his MH unstable and make him lie, cheat and steal and say horrible things. It is what it is. you didn’t Cause this, you can’t Cure this nor can you Control this. It is up to him and I suggest you get out of his way. Be good to yourself and know you are not alone. [/QUOTE]
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