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Every interaction escalates to a blow up fight..what do we do, not talk to difficult child ever?
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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 596131"><p>What I have done with difficult child 1 is to have lots of positives. not questions but statements. "You look really nice today." "What nice eyes you have." "You've gone almost a min playing by me. That was fun!" At first he screamed and hated it, but after a few years of it he has accepted it. Our relationship is much better. And sometimes he is nice to be around. </p><p></p><p>I also shielded his siblings from him as much as possible. I am trying to have their interactions be positive ones. When ever one of his siblings starts to exhibit fear of him first the sibling starts therapy, second I am brutally honest to difficult child 1 about what his actions are like for his siblings and the natural and non-natural consequences of his actions, third difficult child 1 and his therapist focus on difficult child 1's relationship with that sibling. </p><p></p><p>We also have very clear boundaries and consequences. </p><p></p><p>Good luck. I know it is exhausting and very hard to live with.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 596131"] What I have done with difficult child 1 is to have lots of positives. not questions but statements. "You look really nice today." "What nice eyes you have." "You've gone almost a min playing by me. That was fun!" At first he screamed and hated it, but after a few years of it he has accepted it. Our relationship is much better. And sometimes he is nice to be around. I also shielded his siblings from him as much as possible. I am trying to have their interactions be positive ones. When ever one of his siblings starts to exhibit fear of him first the sibling starts therapy, second I am brutally honest to difficult child 1 about what his actions are like for his siblings and the natural and non-natural consequences of his actions, third difficult child 1 and his therapist focus on difficult child 1's relationship with that sibling. We also have very clear boundaries and consequences. Good luck. I know it is exhausting and very hard to live with. [/QUOTE]
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