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Ex has no idea what the definition of enabling is
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 411615" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>((hugs))</p><p></p><p>Enabling means different things to different people. </p><p></p><p>For some it means offering help of any kind for any reason.</p><p></p><p>For me it means I can help as long as that person is working hard to help themselves. Sounds like so far that is what difficult child is doing. </p><p></p><p>But this is why I've totally backed off katie. The most she's doing is whining and daydreaming about someone somewhere lavishing them with money, a home, a car, ect. ugh Any help I give her just gives her yet another reason not to try to fix her situation. If by miracle of miracles she actually landed a job and had no other way to get there........I'd consider giving her a ride, provided she pay the gas. Gas part is only because at the moment I can't afford the extra gas cost.</p><p></p><p>Huge difference between someone who is working hard to change their lives and those who aren't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 411615, member: 84"] ((hugs)) Enabling means different things to different people. For some it means offering help of any kind for any reason. For me it means I can help as long as that person is working hard to help themselves. Sounds like so far that is what difficult child is doing. But this is why I've totally backed off katie. The most she's doing is whining and daydreaming about someone somewhere lavishing them with money, a home, a car, ect. ugh Any help I give her just gives her yet another reason not to try to fix her situation. If by miracle of miracles she actually landed a job and had no other way to get there........I'd consider giving her a ride, provided she pay the gas. Gas part is only because at the moment I can't afford the extra gas cost. Huge difference between someone who is working hard to change their lives and those who aren't. [/QUOTE]
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