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Ex trying to force He-Who-Left-Family and Daughter to have Christmas together
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 641338" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It wouldn't shock me if he wants his grandchildren to form a bond, but it's mostly about him. He doesn't want to have to go to two different homes and really wants it in HIS home because it's easier. He was there last time when the two barely spoke to one another yet he's trying again, knowing Julie doesn't want it. I'm sure Scott has not been enthusiastic either. Who wants Christmas to be like that? Julie doesn't want her daughter compared in the way Scott will compare his boys...both being straight up Christians, which her daughter will not be, and having enough money to go to elite schools. Plus the two adults don't like each other, for different reasons. And Julie's SO hates Scott for what he said to him and to Julie...and obviously, with his beliefs, hasn't changed his mind. It's just stupid. Let them decide who to see and let it go. Your dreams and wishes can't be forced on others.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, I would never have gotten involved if Julie hadn't called me, but she did, begging me to do something. She knows I can handle her dad. I'm not afraid of him. It didn't take any guts at all. But thanks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 641338, member: 1550"] It wouldn't shock me if he wants his grandchildren to form a bond, but it's mostly about him. He doesn't want to have to go to two different homes and really wants it in HIS home because it's easier. He was there last time when the two barely spoke to one another yet he's trying again, knowing Julie doesn't want it. I'm sure Scott has not been enthusiastic either. Who wants Christmas to be like that? Julie doesn't want her daughter compared in the way Scott will compare his boys...both being straight up Christians, which her daughter will not be, and having enough money to go to elite schools. Plus the two adults don't like each other, for different reasons. And Julie's SO hates Scott for what he said to him and to Julie...and obviously, with his beliefs, hasn't changed his mind. It's just stupid. Let them decide who to see and let it go. Your dreams and wishes can't be forced on others. At any rate, I would never have gotten involved if Julie hadn't called me, but she did, begging me to do something. She knows I can handle her dad. I'm not afraid of him. It didn't take any guts at all. But thanks. [/QUOTE]
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