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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 695193" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>When we moved and sought out a new pediatrician, they thought my son's records were wrong. HIs head size was past the 3rd standard deviation and he (oldest child Wiz) should have been tested for hydrocephaly because his head was so extremely large. </p><p></p><p>My oldest is definitely wired differently. It takes 3 antidepressants of different types to have him a functional adult. But he is able to recognize this in the last five or so years and it makes all the difference. But we have a great family history of what should have been aspergers/high functioning autism on my dad's side and after around age 20-25, the males become very stable. </p><p></p><p>We did have my son move out at 14. Just before he was placed we let my parents try to avoid the placement - at their repeated and frequent requests to do so. He knew he would have to go through me to get to his siblings and he did all he could to do that. He was very violent with us. At that point the only options for hospitals were 2-3 days and sadly it was teen hookup hotel at those hotels. I was NOT amused when I learned about it because 2 fo them were busted for having a high number of teens end up pregnant after a few days there. They were closed by the state or taken over by new mgmt due to this. It was astonishing to me. </p><p></p><p>My oldest needed a very routine and quiet life and with-o that, he could not keep it together. Now he realizes it and this is why he has chosen to NOT have a roommate in his first apartment. He waited until he could afford to pay all the bills himself to move out (I think my mother despaired that she would have to throw him out, lololol - yes I DO find it funny, and now that he is out, well, so does she). Living with 2 younger siblings wasn't easy for him, but at least he finally realizes we were not choosing them over him. He did believe it for a while. Then he realized that we did what all 3 of the kids needed, and that my not being involved with him had NOTHING to do with what I wanted. It was HIS demands that I not be around that created that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 695193, member: 1233"] When we moved and sought out a new pediatrician, they thought my son's records were wrong. HIs head size was past the 3rd standard deviation and he (oldest child Wiz) should have been tested for hydrocephaly because his head was so extremely large. My oldest is definitely wired differently. It takes 3 antidepressants of different types to have him a functional adult. But he is able to recognize this in the last five or so years and it makes all the difference. But we have a great family history of what should have been aspergers/high functioning autism on my dad's side and after around age 20-25, the males become very stable. We did have my son move out at 14. Just before he was placed we let my parents try to avoid the placement - at their repeated and frequent requests to do so. He knew he would have to go through me to get to his siblings and he did all he could to do that. He was very violent with us. At that point the only options for hospitals were 2-3 days and sadly it was teen hookup hotel at those hotels. I was NOT amused when I learned about it because 2 fo them were busted for having a high number of teens end up pregnant after a few days there. They were closed by the state or taken over by new mgmt due to this. It was astonishing to me. My oldest needed a very routine and quiet life and with-o that, he could not keep it together. Now he realizes it and this is why he has chosen to NOT have a roommate in his first apartment. He waited until he could afford to pay all the bills himself to move out (I think my mother despaired that she would have to throw him out, lololol - yes I DO find it funny, and now that he is out, well, so does she). Living with 2 younger siblings wasn't easy for him, but at least he finally realizes we were not choosing them over him. He did believe it for a while. Then he realized that we did what all 3 of the kids needed, and that my not being involved with him had NOTHING to do with what I wanted. It was HIS demands that I not be around that created that. [/QUOTE]
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