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<blockquote data-quote="BackintheSaddle" data-source="post: 618882" data-attributes="member: 17503"><p>I was understanding from this quote that a lot had been done to get and keep him in treatment but he hasn't stuck to the rules--even gave him cash to stay in a hotel and he spent it on drugs...to me, this story sounds like someone who says what he knows his mom wants to hear but his behavior doesn't follow it-- I mean, he was standing in the hotel lobby, she sent him money, and he left immediately to get the cash and use it for drugs? that's a full blown addict not looking to be clean...at least not in my experience...but whatever he's feeling like, the Mom needs to be the focus and take care of herself...</p><p> </p><p><em>He relapsed 2 wks ago & was taken to another sober home. In a room search they found drugs in his suitcase but he tested clean. He swore he wasn't using. Then on Monday the second sober home called & found paraphernalia & he left before taking a test. He admitted he relapsed, said he felt terrible & he wanted to get sober again & go forward. Sober house said he couldn't return until he tested clean. He asked if I could pay for a hotel. He was in the lobby of the hotel & I asked to talk to the desk clerk. A man came on the phone & said due to identity theft credit cards can't be taken over the phone, but my son was standing in front of him waiting to check in. So, I transferred $ to my son's account for him to pay. I look in his account & it shows a cash withdraw at an ATM!</em></p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/falling-apart.56359/#ixzz2rwPKj833" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/falling-apart.56359/#ixzz2rwPKj833</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BackintheSaddle, post: 618882, member: 17503"] I was understanding from this quote that a lot had been done to get and keep him in treatment but he hasn't stuck to the rules--even gave him cash to stay in a hotel and he spent it on drugs...to me, this story sounds like someone who says what he knows his mom wants to hear but his behavior doesn't follow it-- I mean, he was standing in the hotel lobby, she sent him money, and he left immediately to get the cash and use it for drugs? that's a full blown addict not looking to be clean...at least not in my experience...but whatever he's feeling like, the Mom needs to be the focus and take care of herself... [I]He relapsed 2 wks ago & was taken to another sober home. In a room search they found drugs in his suitcase but he tested clean. He swore he wasn't using. Then on Monday the second sober home called & found paraphernalia & he left before taking a test. He admitted he relapsed, said he felt terrible & he wanted to get sober again & go forward. Sober house said he couldn't return until he tested clean. He asked if I could pay for a hotel. He was in the lobby of the hotel & I asked to talk to the desk clerk. A man came on the phone & said due to identity theft credit cards can't be taken over the phone, but my son was standing in front of him waiting to check in. So, I transferred $ to my son's account for him to pay. I look in his account & it shows a cash withdraw at an ATM![/I] Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/falling-apart.56359/#ixzz2rwPKj833[/url] [/QUOTE]
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