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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 743883" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Mini update: Our son called. The mother is definitely taking this seriously. In fact, it seems to be a wake up call. It is shocking to me and I think everyone that it took this long. Nevertheless, she has become aware that she has a highly problematic situation on her hands. Sadly, she is not doing too well emotionally with the realization. (Haven’t we all been there). Sadly, from what we can gather, it has not fully hit the father what a mess this is. I think she has turned a corner, I suspect he still thinks if they just parent him well, get lots of support from grandparents, teachers etc ...all will be ok. Sigh.</p><p></p><p>Interestingly, my adult g. F. G. was out of control today and very inappropriate with me. She is 30.</p><p></p><p>These guys are clueless x a million.</p><p></p><p>Maybe it’s a strong defense mechanism. Denial ...big time.</p><p></p><p>Having this type of “child” in my own life has been a profoundly painful.</p><p></p><p>My husband thinks her mini breakdown likely means the boy won’t come. I agree.</p><p></p><p>But, I agree with Copa and all of you. I have to be greatly prepared. Locked up items, locked doors, babysitter, everyone watching the child...I’ll go overboard in the protection dept.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 743883, member: 4152"] Mini update: Our son called. The mother is definitely taking this seriously. In fact, it seems to be a wake up call. It is shocking to me and I think everyone that it took this long. Nevertheless, she has become aware that she has a highly problematic situation on her hands. Sadly, she is not doing too well emotionally with the realization. (Haven’t we all been there). Sadly, from what we can gather, it has not fully hit the father what a mess this is. I think she has turned a corner, I suspect he still thinks if they just parent him well, get lots of support from grandparents, teachers etc ...all will be ok. Sigh. Interestingly, my adult g. F. G. was out of control today and very inappropriate with me. She is 30. These guys are clueless x a million. Maybe it’s a strong defense mechanism. Denial ...big time. Having this type of “child” in my own life has been a profoundly painful. My husband thinks her mini breakdown likely means the boy won’t come. I agree. But, I agree with Copa and all of you. I have to be greatly prepared. Locked up items, locked doors, babysitter, everyone watching the child...I’ll go overboard in the protection dept. [/QUOTE]
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