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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 743699" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>He doesn't care whether or not it is normal. And even if he did, he is indifferent to whether he controls it or not. If he cared, he wouldn't drink to excess. </p><p></p><p>Trying. I will be direct. You are making excuses for him and babying him. This is not good for him and it is not good for you. The goal is that you and your well-being and your feelings be the center of your life. And let him feel his own center, and that he is in charge and responsible for that. He needs to be master of him and you need to be master of you. This is what will help him. And this is what will help you.</p><p></p><p>Your worrying about him will not help him make better choices. His worrying about him will.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 743699, member: 18958"] He doesn't care whether or not it is normal. And even if he did, he is indifferent to whether he controls it or not. If he cared, he wouldn't drink to excess. Trying. I will be direct. You are making excuses for him and babying him. This is not good for him and it is not good for you. The goal is that you and your well-being and your feelings be the center of your life. And let him feel his own center, and that he is in charge and responsible for that. He needs to be master of him and you need to be master of you. This is what will help him. And this is what will help you. Your worrying about him will not help him make better choices. His worrying about him will. [/QUOTE]
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