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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 743851" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Update.... they would not admit him on Wed. because it was after their cut off time... He could have went earlier using an uber and chose not to.</p><p>Thursday he went and then forgot something and they left him go back for it.... Supposedly fell asleep and missed the cut off time again so went drinking.</p><p>Friday lost something very important at a bar and was frantically trying to find it delaying going to treatment. I lost it. I called the treatment place and they told me he had to be there by 10 or that was it since he had 2 days to get there prior...</p><p>I called him and told him if he doesn't get there by the time stated that we were totally finished with him. He is there now.</p><p>Called today to ask if it was true that the new girl wants not parts of him.... he couldn't remember what took place the last few days...</p><p>My heart breaks.. I see pics of mothers and their sons laughing and I long to have that again. </p><p>He mentioned the other day that he would consider sober living this time.</p><p>I am torn because we are not sure what to do about his apartment and belongings. The lease has my name on it and it goes until the middle of April. Breaking the lease requires paying 2 months rent.</p><p>I feel sober living would be the best move for him so he would have support around him instead of being alone in his apartment. Average stay is 3 months at the sober living but some stay longer. IF the lease doesn't get broken, then if he doesn't like sober living he has a place to go which makes me feel he could just get fed up and leave sober living. If the apartment is gone, he would be homeless.</p><p>Any thoughts on what to do? Break the lease or not?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 743851, member: 22817"] Update.... they would not admit him on Wed. because it was after their cut off time... He could have went earlier using an uber and chose not to. Thursday he went and then forgot something and they left him go back for it.... Supposedly fell asleep and missed the cut off time again so went drinking. Friday lost something very important at a bar and was frantically trying to find it delaying going to treatment. I lost it. I called the treatment place and they told me he had to be there by 10 or that was it since he had 2 days to get there prior... I called him and told him if he doesn't get there by the time stated that we were totally finished with him. He is there now. Called today to ask if it was true that the new girl wants not parts of him.... he couldn't remember what took place the last few days... My heart breaks.. I see pics of mothers and their sons laughing and I long to have that again. He mentioned the other day that he would consider sober living this time. I am torn because we are not sure what to do about his apartment and belongings. The lease has my name on it and it goes until the middle of April. Breaking the lease requires paying 2 months rent. I feel sober living would be the best move for him so he would have support around him instead of being alone in his apartment. Average stay is 3 months at the sober living but some stay longer. IF the lease doesn't get broken, then if he doesn't like sober living he has a place to go which makes me feel he could just get fed up and leave sober living. If the apartment is gone, he would be homeless. Any thoughts on what to do? Break the lease or not? [/QUOTE]
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