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Feel like there is more than addiction
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 744015" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Of course you care..... you cant move on completely... he is your son and you love him. when our kids are suffering we feel it. Thats natural. The key is to be clear on boundaries and to be clear on what is his and what is yours..... and to build your own life to live in spite of what is going on with him..... so that your total focus is not him and how he is doing or not doing. The worry and fear and pain wont completely go away and you wont completely forget but it can at least some of the time be on the back burner and other things can be in the forefront.</p><p></p><p>II think it will be good when this lease is up.....because really it would be good if you could say we will help you with sober living but not another kind of apartment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 744015, member: 15801"] Of course you care..... you cant move on completely... he is your son and you love him. when our kids are suffering we feel it. Thats natural. The key is to be clear on boundaries and to be clear on what is his and what is yours..... and to build your own life to live in spite of what is going on with him..... so that your total focus is not him and how he is doing or not doing. The worry and fear and pain wont completely go away and you wont completely forget but it can at least some of the time be on the back burner and other things can be in the forefront. II think it will be good when this lease is up.....because really it would be good if you could say we will help you with sober living but not another kind of apartment. [/QUOTE]
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