I gotta tell you something, Susan. I think that your wanting him out of jail is more for you than for him.
Bailing him out is not an act of love. LETTING HIM FIGURE IT OUT FOR HIMSELF SO THAT MAYBE HE WILL NEVER GO BACK...that is an act of love.
Love without emotion? Humans are the only animals unfortunate enough to let emotions get in the way of love. Ever see 2 doggies snuggle? 2 cats? Dolphins? Heck, geese and seahorses mate for life! Never an emotion. Just love.
When you can do LOVE without EMOTION then you have DETACHED.
