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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 763697" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi Maribelle, I am sorry for your heartache and pain. Knowing that an adult child is out of control is extremely painful. I went to years of therapy with my daughter and alone. There were many things suggested that I did to help her and me but no one ever said stop all contact. My daughter knew I was tender hearted losing her brother to death and took full advantage of me. It was truly demonic. After years of counseling and self help books, all I read and was told to me was to just work on it and do not disconnect. After deep prayer I felt in my heart to just let go. It took all the strength I had. It was the ONLY thing that made my daughter make the changes and the changes came very slow but they did move forward. </p><p>I wish you much peace and strength for you and your husband to follow your intuition and try something different, something drastic that would force his son to grow up. My daughter could not believe I had the strength to do it, but in the process I regained my self respect, some joy and it forced her to try much harder.</p><p>The one thing I noticed immediately when I reconnected back to her was her belligerent towards me almost stopped. I think it was because she knew I had the strength to walk away.. Prayers for you, the deep kind that make positive changes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 763697, member: 22416"] Hi Maribelle, I am sorry for your heartache and pain. Knowing that an adult child is out of control is extremely painful. I went to years of therapy with my daughter and alone. There were many things suggested that I did to help her and me but no one ever said stop all contact. My daughter knew I was tender hearted losing her brother to death and took full advantage of me. It was truly demonic. After years of counseling and self help books, all I read and was told to me was to just work on it and do not disconnect. After deep prayer I felt in my heart to just let go. It took all the strength I had. It was the ONLY thing that made my daughter make the changes and the changes came very slow but they did move forward. I wish you much peace and strength for you and your husband to follow your intuition and try something different, something drastic that would force his son to grow up. My daughter could not believe I had the strength to do it, but in the process I regained my self respect, some joy and it forced her to try much harder. The one thing I noticed immediately when I reconnected back to her was her belligerent towards me almost stopped. I think it was because she knew I had the strength to walk away.. Prayers for you, the deep kind that make positive changes. [/QUOTE]
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