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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 665569" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>By this logic, he probably does not know that it lasts five years, or even one year.</p><p></p><p>You cannot control what he thinks. Just what you think. You have guilt about the terms of the order. Change it.</p><p>I know that he knew he had gone too far.</p><p>That is why you have to ally with the part of him that can change. That is what you are doing now. You are standing up for him. And yourself.</p><p>I know. </p><p></p><p>Look at it from the other direction: Without any treatment and medication your son protected you. That is powerful.</p><p>Yes. That is why you did the right thing. You are allying with his capacity and potential to do all of those things.</p><p>I know that. You are working very hard on that, your piece of it. Like we all are.</p><p></p><p>When the first couple of weeks settle down at school, think about posting more. You will see how similar is your situation with the rest of ours.</p><p>Many of us were.</p><p></p><p>You were in a no-win situation and did the best you could.</p><p></p><p>Why do you not start a new thread? This one not so many people are getting the alerts. The best way to widen your net is to start new threads.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 665569, member: 18958"] By this logic, he probably does not know that it lasts five years, or even one year. You cannot control what he thinks. Just what you think. You have guilt about the terms of the order. Change it. I know that he knew he had gone too far. That is why you have to ally with the part of him that can change. That is what you are doing now. You are standing up for him. And yourself. I know. Look at it from the other direction: Without any treatment and medication your son protected you. That is powerful. Yes. That is why you did the right thing. You are allying with his capacity and potential to do all of those things. I know that. You are working very hard on that, your piece of it. Like we all are. When the first couple of weeks settle down at school, think about posting more. You will see how similar is your situation with the rest of ours. Many of us were. You were in a no-win situation and did the best you could. Why do you not start a new thread? This one not so many people are getting the alerts. The best way to widen your net is to start new threads. [/QUOTE]
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