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<blockquote data-quote="Feeling Sad" data-source="post: 665576" data-attributes="member: 19245"><p>I know that I am "awfulizing", but it is difficult to not do when he probably does not know reality. I realize, that the future will probably be somewhere in the middle of great and catastrophic.</p><p></p><p>I paid thousands to a private investigator 10 years ago. I had to fill out a form so that his monthly fee was automatically taken out of my account. He always just told me where he had been, hotels and campgrounds, etc. I found out that the investigator lived in a different state! It was done all online. Some months he found nothing, but still automatically took money out. It cost me thousands. I finally had to fill out proper paperwork to have it stop.</p><p></p><p>I flew up there twice to try to find him. </p><p></p><p>The police would stop him and tell him that he should call me because of the missing persons report. He would say that he knows, but couldn't. He never did anything wrong. He returned exactly one year later. He subsequently told me that he was trying to establish residency to attend college. He never went to college again...</p><p></p><p>I spoke to someone local this time and he said that it would be very expensive and that they check parking lot surveillance tapes. My ill son told me that he liked to park in residential areas. When I tried to find him before, I was going around major blocks, just circling where he was parking in the middle by houses.</p><p></p><p>If they showed up now at the shelter to talk to him, he would run...permanently.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Feeling Sad, post: 665576, member: 19245"] I know that I am "awfulizing", but it is difficult to not do when he probably does not know reality. I realize, that the future will probably be somewhere in the middle of great and catastrophic. I paid thousands to a private investigator 10 years ago. I had to fill out a form so that his monthly fee was automatically taken out of my account. He always just told me where he had been, hotels and campgrounds, etc. I found out that the investigator lived in a different state! It was done all online. Some months he found nothing, but still automatically took money out. It cost me thousands. I finally had to fill out proper paperwork to have it stop. I flew up there twice to try to find him. The police would stop him and tell him that he should call me because of the missing persons report. He would say that he knows, but couldn't. He never did anything wrong. He returned exactly one year later. He subsequently told me that he was trying to establish residency to attend college. He never went to college again... I spoke to someone local this time and he said that it would be very expensive and that they check parking lot surveillance tapes. My ill son told me that he liked to park in residential areas. When I tried to find him before, I was going around major blocks, just circling where he was parking in the middle by houses. If they showed up now at the shelter to talk to him, he would run...permanently. [/QUOTE]
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