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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 665719" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Feeling, you are grieving. What you describe is very like what I experienced after the death of my Mother.</p><p></p><p>While I cared for her as she died, I did not do perfectly. And our relationship when I became an adult was for a long time estranged.</p><p></p><p>As I grieved her I grieved my whole life. I regretted every moment I spent apart from her. My whole life to me had been been lived badly. I felt I had nothing left. </p><p></p><p>Now that I am mostly through it, I see how my thinking was distorted. I did the best I could all my life. When I could do better. I did.</p><p></p><p>We do not have control over every little thing. We do the best we can.</p><p></p><p>You were traumatized. You are grieving. Me too. I am getting better. It is a process.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 665719, member: 18958"] Feeling, you are grieving. What you describe is very like what I experienced after the death of my Mother. While I cared for her as she died, I did not do perfectly. And our relationship when I became an adult was for a long time estranged. As I grieved her I grieved my whole life. I regretted every moment I spent apart from her. My whole life to me had been been lived badly. I felt I had nothing left. Now that I am mostly through it, I see how my thinking was distorted. I did the best I could all my life. When I could do better. I did. We do not have control over every little thing. We do the best we can. You were traumatized. You are grieving. Me too. I am getting better. It is a process. [/QUOTE]
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