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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 766089" data-attributes="member: 18958">Hi KsmThat's good news.&nbsp; You, F, and your GGS A are so blessed to have each other. I pray that rehab takes.I don't know what to say because my understanding of your situaiton is so colored by my own. I am at the point where I can't tolerate even speaking by phone to my son. It is so agitating to me.In our case I don't think drugs are the only issue. This may be the elephant in the room, but personality issues, the fact he was 22 months without any parent at all, are lurking right there in the corner. I have to learn to accept that we don't get what we need in this life, and have to deal with, and accept, others how they are. We get no vote over another adult. We all know this is so heartbreakingly difficult with our children.I am still stuck in the place of having to have strong physical, external boundaries, because intermally I can't yet cope with nor accept my son. This causes me great pain.I</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 766089, member: 18958"] Hi Ksm That's good news. You, F, and your GGS A are so blessed to have each other. I pray that rehab takes. I don't know what to say because my understanding of your situaiton is so colored by my own. I am at the point where I can't tolerate even speaking by phone to my son. It is so agitating to me. In our case I don't think drugs are the only issue. This may be the elephant in the room, but personality issues, the fact he was 22 months without any parent at all, are lurking right there in the corner. I have to learn to accept that we don't get what we need in this life, and have to deal with, and accept, others how they are. We get no vote over another adult. We all know this is so heartbreakingly difficult with our children. I am still stuck in the place of having to have strong physical, external boundaries, because intermally I can't yet cope with nor accept my son. This causes me great pain. I [/QUOTE]

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