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My situation is very similar my oldest son is my difficult one and just went back to jail today. I almost lost a relationship with my other 2 because of spending so much time trying to save him. I am now trying to rebuild those relationships. My oldest is not allowed to come to my house. I return his texts when he is being cival.i have come to believe that by helping i am only hurting him and my other two. I still have days i get weak but am getting stronger through this site and private counceling. I hope that you find peace as well. My prayers are with you. This will sound so silly but i watched a fictional show about a homeless drug addict who had an angel with her to help her through and found myself hoping that my son has an angel too.
