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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 651175" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>You know, I did this too.</p><p></p><p>I really hadn't see it that way. I always listened, always encouraged. </p><p></p><p>It was the same with my mom.</p><p></p><p>She actually asked me one time whether she should use this certain man she had already, in my opinion, used quite extensively. </p><p></p><p>I wonder why they do that?</p><p></p><p>It always felt like they wondered what was the right thing, and really did not know. </p><p></p><p>Not that I do either, but I am usually honest about how I see a thing.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Aw, you're welcome, MWM. I feel the same about you. We share at such deep levels here, and seem drawn to those who can help us. I can see myself so clearly in your situations, but without the sting of that family of origin judgment, and so, I can heal.</p><p></p><p>I think it is the same for you?</p><p></p><p>We heal to the degree that we are honest about where it hurts, I think.</p><p></p><p>Both you and I have been so fortunate. This Board has been a gift for me. I am really happy to be here.</p><p></p><p>Thank you, MWM, for all you have done to help me see myself in a different light, too. Together, we are healing, and we are so lucky! Maybe there is someone reading along who is healing too, from what we share.</p><p></p><p>What an extraordinary thing.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 651175, member: 17461"] You know, I did this too. I really hadn't see it that way. I always listened, always encouraged. It was the same with my mom. She actually asked me one time whether she should use this certain man she had already, in my opinion, used quite extensively. I wonder why they do that? It always felt like they wondered what was the right thing, and really did not know. Not that I do either, but I am usually honest about how I see a thing. Aw, you're welcome, MWM. I feel the same about you. We share at such deep levels here, and seem drawn to those who can help us. I can see myself so clearly in your situations, but without the sting of that family of origin judgment, and so, I can heal. I think it is the same for you? We heal to the degree that we are honest about where it hurts, I think. Both you and I have been so fortunate. This Board has been a gift for me. I am really happy to be here. Thank you, MWM, for all you have done to help me see myself in a different light, too. Together, we are healing, and we are so lucky! Maybe there is someone reading along who is healing too, from what we share. What an extraordinary thing. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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