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<blockquote data-quote="FlowerGarden" data-source="post: 8177" data-attributes="member: 3068"><p>Thanks all for responding. OTE, the link was good. We're in NJ and I'm going to search to see our state's site. </p><p></p><p>SunnyFlorida, when the incident happened with the police, we couldn't get him into the hospital that his psychiatrist is from. They had to send us somewhere else. The psychiatrist there put him on an antidepressant and suggested an after school program to help him cope with having a mental illness. We looked into it and I could not find anything good about it. We knew one teen that attended the after school rehab there and it was worthless. </p><p></p><p>His regular psychiatrist recommmended counseling for him to talk to someone and for his anger. We just found someone that he is willing to go to (difficult to get him to open up to people). He's gone once and has an appointment this week. That counselor told me that he has ODD & CD and that he feels we might have to hire someone to escort him and put him in a residental program for ODD. This counselor actually worked in the middle school that difficult child attended. He knows that he wasn't a problem at all in school and was shocked to see how oppositional & angry he is around us. difficult child hates us because we ask too many questions and talk to his friends!</p><p></p><p>Had problems after posting earlier. difficult child was very argumentive with me and easy child 2. difficult child called the police and hung up so naturally they came. difficult child was not making sense half the time and calling them names. He kept saying that he was going away to Florida where we wouldn't find him. He was leaving us. The cops were good with him and left telling him that I will call them back if he gives me problems. Well, he decided he wanted to go out & I said no. He started knocking books off the shelf, taking the bedding off my bed etc. I just laid down on my be with a headache. He decided he was going to flip the mattress with me on it. He started lifting it and had it halfway over when he stopped without saying anything and walked down the stairs into his room. I just laid there for not even a minute when he came out of his room and said - Mom, I need you to do something for me....E-Mail Mr. C. (His soccer coach) and tell him that me and Brian found 5 kids willing to play so far for indoor. HE WAS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT PERSON IN LESS THAN A MINUTE! Then he took a shower and came in by me and asked if I had looked in easy child 1's closet for his missing wallet and keys. I said yes that I did. He says, well, I found them in there & he proceeded to hand them to me. It was if he truly believed he had found them in easy child's closet when we couldn't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="FlowerGarden, post: 8177, member: 3068"] Thanks all for responding. OTE, the link was good. We're in NJ and I'm going to search to see our state's site. SunnyFlorida, when the incident happened with the police, we couldn't get him into the hospital that his psychiatrist is from. They had to send us somewhere else. The psychiatrist there put him on an antidepressant and suggested an after school program to help him cope with having a mental illness. We looked into it and I could not find anything good about it. We knew one teen that attended the after school rehab there and it was worthless. His regular psychiatrist recommmended counseling for him to talk to someone and for his anger. We just found someone that he is willing to go to (difficult to get him to open up to people). He's gone once and has an appointment this week. That counselor told me that he has ODD & CD and that he feels we might have to hire someone to escort him and put him in a residental program for ODD. This counselor actually worked in the middle school that difficult child attended. He knows that he wasn't a problem at all in school and was shocked to see how oppositional & angry he is around us. difficult child hates us because we ask too many questions and talk to his friends! Had problems after posting earlier. difficult child was very argumentive with me and easy child 2. difficult child called the police and hung up so naturally they came. difficult child was not making sense half the time and calling them names. He kept saying that he was going away to Florida where we wouldn't find him. He was leaving us. The cops were good with him and left telling him that I will call them back if he gives me problems. Well, he decided he wanted to go out & I said no. He started knocking books off the shelf, taking the bedding off my bed etc. I just laid down on my be with a headache. He decided he was going to flip the mattress with me on it. He started lifting it and had it halfway over when he stopped without saying anything and walked down the stairs into his room. I just laid there for not even a minute when he came out of his room and said - Mom, I need you to do something for me....E-Mail Mr. C. (His soccer coach) and tell him that me and Brian found 5 kids willing to play so far for indoor. HE WAS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT PERSON IN LESS THAN A MINUTE! Then he took a shower and came in by me and asked if I had looked in easy child 1's closet for his missing wallet and keys. I said yes that I did. He says, well, I found them in there & he proceeded to hand them to me. It was if he truly believed he had found them in easy child's closet when we couldn't. [/QUOTE]
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