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"Friends"...why is it so hard to get away from them?
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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 638467" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>OMG no. LOL You have it really, really, wrong. </p><p></p><p>I've seen the 20+ FB messages and wall posts when he was trying to avoid J-2. When we kicked my son out, J-1 FB messaged ME...asking what was up because my son was not responding to any of his messages and he wanted to hang out. I'm the one who changed the phone number at his request and he didn't give the new number out so FB was the only way they could find him. He was working on making some new friends. You have it completely wrong. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>What did you mean by this? "(like really?)" </p><p></p><p>J-1 has been homeless for years! He couch surfs and lives with this cousin and that one. Was with a grandma for a few months, until they had a fight and he did something stupid like punch a door and that's what he's on probation for. He lived with one of his mom's ex's for a while. I've known this boy since freshman year. He lived with us. We took him to his dad because he was drinking and smoking pot in our house (this was before we knew our kid had started joining in). He left and came back here and then had the nerve to try to get us to take him back. No...I feel bad for J-1, but he's largely to blame for his own problems. </p><p></p><p>But whatever. I assure you, you have it completely wrong. My kid's a liar and a thief (from me at least) and manipulative as hell...but he did NOT arrange this. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>If you knew these boys you'd know how ludicrous the very thought is. It's exactly the opposite. </p><p></p><p>Actually dstc has it right. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yep...I can't tell you how many times over the years, my kid has said, "J-1 wants to know if he can spend the night." while shaking his head NO so we'd say no and be the bad guys. He's sent me texts that said, "so and so wants to come over, if he calls, tell him I can't". I have to admit to having encouraged this a bit, because I didn't mind if he didn't want to hang out with someone. In retrospect, we should have made him stand up to them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 638467, member: 17309"] OMG no. LOL You have it really, really, wrong. I've seen the 20+ FB messages and wall posts when he was trying to avoid J-2. When we kicked my son out, J-1 FB messaged ME...asking what was up because my son was not responding to any of his messages and he wanted to hang out. I'm the one who changed the phone number at his request and he didn't give the new number out so FB was the only way they could find him. He was working on making some new friends. You have it completely wrong. What did you mean by this? "(like really?)" J-1 has been homeless for years! He couch surfs and lives with this cousin and that one. Was with a grandma for a few months, until they had a fight and he did something stupid like punch a door and that's what he's on probation for. He lived with one of his mom's ex's for a while. I've known this boy since freshman year. He lived with us. We took him to his dad because he was drinking and smoking pot in our house (this was before we knew our kid had started joining in). He left and came back here and then had the nerve to try to get us to take him back. No...I feel bad for J-1, but he's largely to blame for his own problems. But whatever. I assure you, you have it completely wrong. My kid's a liar and a thief (from me at least) and manipulative as hell...but he did NOT arrange this. If you knew these boys you'd know how ludicrous the very thought is. It's exactly the opposite. Actually dstc has it right. Yep...I can't tell you how many times over the years, my kid has said, "J-1 wants to know if he can spend the night." while shaking his head NO so we'd say no and be the bad guys. He's sent me texts that said, "so and so wants to come over, if he calls, tell him I can't". I have to admit to having encouraged this a bit, because I didn't mind if he didn't want to hang out with someone. In retrospect, we should have made him stand up to them. [/QUOTE]
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