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"Friends"...why is it so hard to get away from them?
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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 638508" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>Thanks for accepting my apology Lil. I appreciate it. I read most of the current thread. Maybe just do only temporary no contact. Sounds like his friends are real problem, no matter if he is the leader or follower. I think all of them are really manipulating all parties involved. The question is , what are you going to do now and in the future? Is he never allowed to come back home, or are you waiting to see if he learns his lesson and then thinking about letting him come home again? I think it's really good if you all decide that now, so this way, it doesn't lead him on either and he can act accordingly. Maybe you all already did tell him he could never come home again, I am just going off the assumption that you didn't. The important thing is, no matter what happens, are you going to let him do it on his own? If so, be fair and let him know that now and mean it or else he is always going to think "my mom will always help me. Yeah, she might get mad and throw me out of the house, but she'll get over it eventually". Trust me, they will do anything, suffer through anything, just to have a little bit of support from you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 638508, member: 18233"] Thanks for accepting my apology Lil. I appreciate it. I read most of the current thread. Maybe just do only temporary no contact. Sounds like his friends are real problem, no matter if he is the leader or follower. I think all of them are really manipulating all parties involved. The question is , what are you going to do now and in the future? Is he never allowed to come back home, or are you waiting to see if he learns his lesson and then thinking about letting him come home again? I think it's really good if you all decide that now, so this way, it doesn't lead him on either and he can act accordingly. Maybe you all already did tell him he could never come home again, I am just going off the assumption that you didn't. The important thing is, no matter what happens, are you going to let him do it on his own? If so, be fair and let him know that now and mean it or else he is always going to think "my mom will always help me. Yeah, she might get mad and throw me out of the house, but she'll get over it eventually". Trust me, they will do anything, suffer through anything, just to have a little bit of support from you. [/QUOTE]
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