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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 265028" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Welcome. I've had a bit of experience with drug using teens <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /> and it is ugly for sure. Out of the eight kids we had one darling daughter who hooked up with a charming, wealthy, funloving, handome boy a few years older. This daughter (now a Mom to teens herself) has never told me details yet <strong>but</strong> I firmly believe that she was introduced into sexual activities that were not normal for her age (in my humble opinion, any age, if I am right). Her personality changed although she was not violent. She was different depending on whether he was around or not.</p><p></p><p>Sadly it is not unusual for older boyfriend's to use their devoted younger girls for more than just self pleasure. It took quite awhile for this relationship to end. We stayed nearby as much as possible and did our best to be nonjudgemental....on the other hand, the boyfriend was always perfectly polite to us. I do not think I could put up with one instance of direct defiance. I believe (have not been there done that) that I would have to say "This is MY family home and when I ask someone to please leave, they must leave. If not the police will be called. I will not allow anyone to intimidate me or my family." Then I would do it...over and over and over again if necessary. My personality is such that I simply could not let some punk think for a New York minute that he could control me or my home.</p><p></p><p>I'm curious. Who determined the equine program attendance? How is the school reacting to her slide? Are you a single parent or the only parent who is participating in these events? What about the siblings? Do they share with you concerns they have? Yikes these years are difficult.</p><p>Sending hugs and a prayer your way. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 265028, member: 35"] Welcome. I've had a bit of experience with drug using teens :sick: and it is ugly for sure. Out of the eight kids we had one darling daughter who hooked up with a charming, wealthy, funloving, handome boy a few years older. This daughter (now a Mom to teens herself) has never told me details yet [B]but[/B] I firmly believe that she was introduced into sexual activities that were not normal for her age (in my humble opinion, any age, if I am right). Her personality changed although she was not violent. She was different depending on whether he was around or not. Sadly it is not unusual for older boyfriend's to use their devoted younger girls for more than just self pleasure. It took quite awhile for this relationship to end. We stayed nearby as much as possible and did our best to be nonjudgemental....on the other hand, the boyfriend was always perfectly polite to us. I do not think I could put up with one instance of direct defiance. I believe (have not been there done that) that I would have to say "This is MY family home and when I ask someone to please leave, they must leave. If not the police will be called. I will not allow anyone to intimidate me or my family." Then I would do it...over and over and over again if necessary. My personality is such that I simply could not let some punk think for a New York minute that he could control me or my home. I'm curious. Who determined the equine program attendance? How is the school reacting to her slide? Are you a single parent or the only parent who is participating in these events? What about the siblings? Do they share with you concerns they have? Yikes these years are difficult. Sending hugs and a prayer your way. DDD [/QUOTE]
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