I also agree with the posters above who suggested working with your difficult child to teach him to say no to certain foods (although it must be very hard for a 7 year old to understand why he can't have a cupcake ~ I would have trouble saying no to that myself). Seriously, though, the reality is that no one can watch your child every second of the day while he is at school just like you can't watch him every second that he is at home.
This situation was different of course. It will be interesting to see how the teacher responds. Keep us updated.
~Kathy
