Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Getting very anxious waiting for results
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 22598" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Janet is right. If this baby is your grandaughter then your relationship with her is what is important. Focus soley on her and try to leave the Mom out of it. And with Mom being the way she is this baby is going to need as many loving stable people in her life as possible.</p><p></p><p>Setting up visitation is a wonderful idea. I encouraged N to do this right away with b/f. Since b/f still lives at home, this means his parents also get to enjoy the overnite visits with the baby. Aubrey visits Daddy and grandparents every sat nite all nite and sunday during the day. This is set in stone thru habit. But thru this it made it easier for Aubrey to be at their house more often. Now she is there with N part of every single day. And I sure don't hear the other set of grandparents complaining. :grin:</p><p></p><p>Best way to set up visitation is to say to Mom that she'd probably enjoy having a day to herself every week or every 2 weeks. And that you would enjoy having the baby visit with you so you all can get to know her better.</p><p></p><p>If the baby is difficult child's you need to focus on the positives. You'll be a grandma and get to spoil the beegeebies out of an adorable baby girl. :wink:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 22598, member: 84"] Janet is right. If this baby is your grandaughter then your relationship with her is what is important. Focus soley on her and try to leave the Mom out of it. And with Mom being the way she is this baby is going to need as many loving stable people in her life as possible. Setting up visitation is a wonderful idea. I encouraged N to do this right away with b/f. Since b/f still lives at home, this means his parents also get to enjoy the overnite visits with the baby. Aubrey visits Daddy and grandparents every sat nite all nite and sunday during the day. This is set in stone thru habit. But thru this it made it easier for Aubrey to be at their house more often. Now she is there with N part of every single day. And I sure don't hear the other set of grandparents complaining. [img]:grin:[/img] Best way to set up visitation is to say to Mom that she'd probably enjoy having a day to herself every week or every 2 weeks. And that you would enjoy having the baby visit with you so you all can get to know her better. If the baby is difficult child's you need to focus on the positives. You'll be a grandma and get to spoil the beegeebies out of an adorable baby girl. [img]:wink:[/img] [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Getting very anxious waiting for results
Top