Thank you.. My hope is that you will feel deep down peace with your son. I really believe unless we learn how to fully detach, not partial, that is when the deep down healing and good energy can flow. I somehow believe that our predatory children will sense and smell when we have a serious change. They know we care deeply and love them endlessly that is why the abuse continues. They have to feel and smell a deep change in us so they have no excuse for their continued abuse. It takes so much strength to make the change but the alternative is the continued emotional, spiritual, beatings.
The madness has to end with us, their mom's. We really have to make it end and it is painful, we have not abandoned them, we still love them and continue to love them from a safe distance not get caught up in their self made BS. By the time a person is nearly 40 years old they not only need a major heave ho they need a boot planted up their A.
