I really hate that "dog and pony" show mentality.
Your daughter is really a narcissist. She will never give up the glory she gets by being pregnant. It's another chapter of the "dog and pony" show.
How sad that she has no other way to have value in her life.
Your wish to help your darling grandson have a decent stable life will always be your goal. Unfortunately, mother/father, court, judge all have more authority over you even if you always seem to be the person they fall back on when stuck with a mess.
Hang in there.
