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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 9922" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><font color="purple">abbey, years ago husband ran away from home....disappeared for about three weeks. i called his brother, an alcoholic in recovery, to see if he'd heard from husband. he said no, but that when he turns up send husband to him & he'd sober him up. i curtly told him it's not the getting sober that's the problem....it's the staying that way. </p><p></p><p>my point, J has broken the trust so many times that it will take a long time ~~~ if ever ~~~ before you can even start to trust in his *recovery*. if he's always trying to mooch money of your husband the signs are not positive that he is making a true effort to live a clean & sober life.</p><p></p><p>i'm sorry, hon. i wish i could be more encouraging about this. you have given up more than anyone should to help J & it's all come to nothing. he needs to man up & do this on his own if he's going to do it at all. i know, i know....i'm preaching to the choir & it's husband that needs convincing.</p><p></p><p>i think of you often.</p><p></p><p>kris </font></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 9922, member: 74"] <font color="purple">abbey, years ago husband ran away from home....disappeared for about three weeks. i called his brother, an alcoholic in recovery, to see if he'd heard from husband. he said no, but that when he turns up send husband to him & he'd sober him up. i curtly told him it's not the getting sober that's the problem....it's the staying that way. my point, J has broken the trust so many times that it will take a long time ~~~ if ever ~~~ before you can even start to trust in his *recovery*. if he's always trying to mooch money of your husband the signs are not positive that he is making a true effort to live a clean & sober life. i'm sorry, hon. i wish i could be more encouraging about this. you have given up more than anyone should to help J & it's all come to nothing. he needs to man up & do this on his own if he's going to do it at all. i know, i know....i'm preaching to the choir & it's husband that needs convincing. i think of you often. kris </font> [/QUOTE]
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