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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 91071" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>I find it odd that you can not see that continuing to help your son is enabling him. This is a basic concept that is understood by most adults. </p><p>If you help him, he will not change. He will not be a better person. How come you can not see that? He will be stuck in the same routine he has been all these years that you have been enabling him. </p><p></p><p>IF you want him to change (maybe you really don't) YOU must change in order to allow that change to come. He CAN not and WILL not change if you do the rescue again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 91071, member: 391"] I find it odd that you can not see that continuing to help your son is enabling him. This is a basic concept that is understood by most adults. If you help him, he will not change. He will not be a better person. How come you can not see that? He will be stuck in the same routine he has been all these years that you have been enabling him. IF you want him to change (maybe you really don't) YOU must change in order to allow that change to come. He CAN not and WILL not change if you do the rescue again. [/QUOTE]
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