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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 759501" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>New start, I am so sorry. I won't be around people that don't wear masks as my husband and I are considered vulnerable. My kids wear masks and socially distance. This is our demand, us taking care of our health. My two not difficult kids get our feelings, whether right or wrong. They honor our wishes. Kay would not if she was still around. These adult kids seem to hear what we would like and they do the opposite. Like adult ODD. If we told Kay the sky is blue she used to argue it was red. Just to be contrary. Just to make us feel small. Her beliefs matter but ours do not.</p><p></p><p>Kay is a minority yet I am ashamed to admit makes horrible comments about all minorites, even her own, and Jews to her are a special favorite. I refused to listen to that from her. So she would say I won't listen. I said "no, not to that." Was I wrong? Should I listen even when offended, because she is my daughter?</p><p></p><p>I drew the line at that. There are lovely people of all types and we are part black. My husband is anyway. And my other two kids.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter's boyfriend sounds horrible. I am so sorry. You don't need him in your life in my opinion. Your daughter may at get angry but too bad.</p><p></p><p>Prayers and hugs to you, my dear virtual friend. We are all in this hell together.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 759501, member: 23706"] New start, I am so sorry. I won't be around people that don't wear masks as my husband and I are considered vulnerable. My kids wear masks and socially distance. This is our demand, us taking care of our health. My two not difficult kids get our feelings, whether right or wrong. They honor our wishes. Kay would not if she was still around. These adult kids seem to hear what we would like and they do the opposite. Like adult ODD. If we told Kay the sky is blue she used to argue it was red. Just to be contrary. Just to make us feel small. Her beliefs matter but ours do not. Kay is a minority yet I am ashamed to admit makes horrible comments about all minorites, even her own, and Jews to her are a special favorite. I refused to listen to that from her. So she would say I won't listen. I said "no, not to that." Was I wrong? Should I listen even when offended, because she is my daughter? I drew the line at that. There are lovely people of all types and we are part black. My husband is anyway. And my other two kids. Your daughter's boyfriend sounds horrible. I am so sorry. You don't need him in your life in my opinion. Your daughter may at get angry but too bad. Prayers and hugs to you, my dear virtual friend. We are all in this hell together. [/QUOTE]
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