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<blockquote data-quote="Bettyboo44" data-source="post: 766384" data-attributes="member: 33737">To do so without basic conditions, (I.e pay for the electricity your son uses, don’t use drugs in there), would be doing him no favours at all.Like you said, it’s for him. If he was living in an apartment anywhere else he would have to follow these requirements, along with many more. My eldest son (26) does this also to me quite often if I don’t give him what he wants or agree with things being done his way. I agree it’s done as a sort of punishment, but also think it’s a way of controlling me and my emotions and feelings. Not seeing him again after that dreadful ordeal and the hurt from him blocking you is heartbreaking. I’m sure he’ll unblock you again when he decides. So I hope in the meantime you can mind your heart, be kind to it <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="💚" title="Green heart&nbsp; &nbsp; :green_heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f49a.png" data-shortname=":green_heart:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="Bettyboo44, post: 766384, member: 33737"] To do so without basic conditions, (I.e pay for the electricity your son uses, don’t use drugs in there), would be doing him no favours at all. Like you said, it’s for him. If he was living in an apartment anywhere else he would have to follow these requirements, along with many more. My eldest son (26) does this also to me quite often if I don’t give him what he wants or agree with things being done his way. I agree it’s done as a sort of punishment, but also think it’s a way of controlling me and my emotions and feelings. Not seeing him again after that dreadful ordeal and the hurt from him blocking you is heartbreaking. I’m sure he’ll unblock you again when he decides. So I hope in the meantime you can mind your heart, be kind to it 💚 [/QUOTE]

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