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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 737294" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Oh Copa I am so incredibly sad for your heartache. I haven't been on this board for a few days and just now saw this. I remember too well the feeling that I'd never see my son again - I wouldn't wish that feeling on the worst person in the world. I wish I could give you comfort and big hugs and tell you it will all be alright.</p><p></p><p>Well, I can tell you the latter. I do not think you have lost your son forever. Many times you've been here - I know you have. Many times he's taken off. Many times he's come back. Each one feels like THE one - the one you won't get past. But you do and you will and I believe that he'll be back.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The only person alive anyone has control over is <em>themselves</em>. He can only control you if you give him that power Copa. Without your acquiescence, he can't control you any more than you control him. It's clear you know that isn't healthy for either of you. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there my dear Copa. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 737294, member: 17309"] Oh Copa I am so incredibly sad for your heartache. I haven't been on this board for a few days and just now saw this. I remember too well the feeling that I'd never see my son again - I wouldn't wish that feeling on the worst person in the world. I wish I could give you comfort and big hugs and tell you it will all be alright. Well, I can tell you the latter. I do not think you have lost your son forever. Many times you've been here - I know you have. Many times he's taken off. Many times he's come back. Each one feels like THE one - the one you won't get past. But you do and you will and I believe that he'll be back. The only person alive anyone has control over is [I]themselves[/I]. He can only control you if you give him that power Copa. Without your acquiescence, he can't control you any more than you control him. It's clear you know that isn't healthy for either of you. Hang in there my dear Copa. :group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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