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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 737303" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Thank you everybody.. </p><p></p><p>Wish. thank you. A few years ago we went to social security, together, my son and I, and requested I be the payee. We spoke with a supervisor who flatly refused. She said they strongly supported the recipient have control of funds </p><p></p><p>Many times I have thought about pushing this. And my son has at different times wanted me to take control over and responsibility for his funds </p><p></p><p>My thinking was to not insert myself. I hoped for my son to learn. He knows cognitively what to do. He articulstes each month, after he has run out of money, what he will do and should do but once the money is there and he wants what he wants any oversight and good judgement is overridden. </p><p></p><p>You see. I have wanted him to learn and to change. We have no relatives to help him when I die. I do have an attorney. That's all.</p><p></p><p>I am still unwilling to rescue him with the money. Right or wrong. Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 737303, member: 18958"] Thank you everybody.. Wish. thank you. A few years ago we went to social security, together, my son and I, and requested I be the payee. We spoke with a supervisor who flatly refused. She said they strongly supported the recipient have control of funds Many times I have thought about pushing this. And my son has at different times wanted me to take control over and responsibility for his funds My thinking was to not insert myself. I hoped for my son to learn. He knows cognitively what to do. He articulstes each month, after he has run out of money, what he will do and should do but once the money is there and he wants what he wants any oversight and good judgement is overridden. You see. I have wanted him to learn and to change. We have no relatives to help him when I die. I do have an attorney. That's all. I am still unwilling to rescue him with the money. Right or wrong. Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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