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<blockquote data-quote="loves_rainy_days" data-source="post: 474866" data-attributes="member: 12663"><p>Thank You everyone for the info. I have looked at the suggestions and the one that fits the most is that he is on the road to being a psychopath which is what Gentle Giant has feared the most. Some of the others, a little here and a little here fits but not a lot. I have been thinking a lot the last several days on what to do and more so after reading everyone's replies. Gentle Giant and I discussed things this afternoon and evening and both feel that we can no longer do this alone and that our best option is to voluntary admit him to get testing done and for him to be observed. We have tried everything and punishing Dill does no good because he either thinks its funny or has no clue why he is being punished. I am keeping logs and trying to remember to video tape but usually I forget because I get wrapped up in whatever he did or was doing and trying to talk to him about it. There is no rhyme or reason to his outbursts etc...First two weeks of school things were going great for him at school, making friends etc...now everyday notes are sent home about him kicking kids, throwing books, papers etc..,refusing to do his work etc..and now he has no friends because he has scared them all. Creature is starting to defend himself and fight back but Dill has no clue why and we tell him why and Dill just goes "So".</p><p>We are going to call the psychiatrist tomorrow and see what we need to do or at least try to get more help etc...I worry about Dill and his future and at the rate he is going it is not looking good and I don't want that for him, I want the best for him and I definitely don't want to be visiting him behind bars etc..</p><p></p><p><strong>"J" crazy mom of 2, adopted mom of 1. ~Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Bi-polar Disorder, PTSD~ (Effexor)</strong></p><p><strong><strong>"Gentle Giant" Supportive & Loving Boyfriend (Fiancee) ~ADHD, PTSD, Migraine Suffer~ (Zoloft, Vyvance, Seroquel)</strong></strong></p><p><strong><strong>easy child <strong>"TAG" 19yrs old, my mini me. ~Learning Disability (LD)~</strong></strong></strong></p><p><strong><strong><strong>easy child <strong>"Creature" 11yrs old almost 12, my lil story teller. ~Epilepsy, 10yr Brain Tumor Survivor, Learning Disability (LD)~ (Carbatrol)</strong></strong></strong></strong></p><p><strong><strong><strong><strong>difficult child <strong>"Dill" 9yrs old, "Gentle Giant's" son and my son in every way except I didn't give birth to him. My lil Hugger. ~ADHD, possible Oppositional </strong></strong></strong></strong></strong></p><p><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Defiant Disorder, possible Autism/Aspergers, bio-mom avid meth user entire pregnancy, abuse and severe neglect after birth. (Concerta)</strong></strong></strong></strong></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="loves_rainy_days, post: 474866, member: 12663"] Thank You everyone for the info. I have looked at the suggestions and the one that fits the most is that he is on the road to being a psychopath which is what Gentle Giant has feared the most. Some of the others, a little here and a little here fits but not a lot. I have been thinking a lot the last several days on what to do and more so after reading everyone's replies. Gentle Giant and I discussed things this afternoon and evening and both feel that we can no longer do this alone and that our best option is to voluntary admit him to get testing done and for him to be observed. We have tried everything and punishing Dill does no good because he either thinks its funny or has no clue why he is being punished. I am keeping logs and trying to remember to video tape but usually I forget because I get wrapped up in whatever he did or was doing and trying to talk to him about it. There is no rhyme or reason to his outbursts etc...First two weeks of school things were going great for him at school, making friends etc...now everyday notes are sent home about him kicking kids, throwing books, papers etc..,refusing to do his work etc..and now he has no friends because he has scared them all. Creature is starting to defend himself and fight back but Dill has no clue why and we tell him why and Dill just goes "So". We are going to call the psychiatrist tomorrow and see what we need to do or at least try to get more help etc...I worry about Dill and his future and at the rate he is going it is not looking good and I don't want that for him, I want the best for him and I definitely don't want to be visiting him behind bars etc.. [B]"J" crazy mom of 2, adopted mom of 1. ~Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Bi-polar Disorder, PTSD~ (Effexor) [B]"Gentle Giant" Supportive & Loving Boyfriend (Fiancee) ~ADHD, PTSD, Migraine Suffer~ (Zoloft, Vyvance, Seroquel) easy child [B]"TAG" 19yrs old, my mini me. ~Learning Disability (LD)~ easy child [B]"Creature" 11yrs old almost 12, my lil story teller. ~Epilepsy, 10yr Brain Tumor Survivor, Learning Disability (LD)~ (Carbatrol) difficult child [B]"Dill" 9yrs old, "Gentle Giant's" son and my son in every way except I didn't give birth to him. My lil Hugger. ~ADHD, possible Oppositional Defiant Disorder, possible Autism/Aspergers, bio-mom avid meth user entire pregnancy, abuse and severe neglect after birth. (Concerta)[/B][/B][/B][/B][/B] [/QUOTE]
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