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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 738833" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Wanted to update about today.. we went over to load up and move him and he was asleep... I knew he had been up just a little bit prior because I could smell his cigarette smoke. I am not dumb... I figure he got up and threw all of his bottles/booze away and then went back to bed. So he finally got up and helped us load. He seemed fine. We moved him to the new place. I told him how he could get a 2nd job to help with his credit card bills since he can walk to how many places near the new place. Of course he got angry and asked me if I ever worked 2 jobs and how I don't know what that is like... Well, I do work about 50 hours a week and when they were little I did that as well plus took them to their practices, etc. He is a smart ass. So with that I said "Well, I am not co-signing another lease so you will have to figure something out. That lit him up. I told him to get a roommate then to split the costs. He then mumbled about having no money so I asked him how much he spent at the weed store the other day?? No answer. </p><p></p><p>Later in the day I asked him about an addiction psychiatrist and if he ever thought about seeing one. He said he would like to because he feels there is definitely something wrong with his brain. He said his thoughts are terrible.</p><p>I did check his phone records and yesterday (the day he went back to his apartment because he said he wasn't doing well in his head) and then we went for some things he needed... I seen he called the gun store. It scares me. I don't let on that I check his phone records. My counselor said I should not let him know. However, I would like to ask him about it. </p><p>I figured after we left him tonight at his new place he went for some booze. he wasn't complaining of withdrawals so I know I am correct. </p><p>We are here for one more day- he works tomorrow so we won't see him until later. As much as I don't like being here, it is always extremely hard to leave because I fear he will take his life. I fear something will happen to him. I can't live like this anymore. I need to move on. I cry when I think of him alone at the upcoming holidays and pray he finds someone to share them with.</p><p>My husband is tired of this as well. My daughter gets upset that we seem to come out to him and he doesn't appreciate us. </p><p>Thank you for all of your advice. It is appreciated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 738833, member: 22817"] Wanted to update about today.. we went over to load up and move him and he was asleep... I knew he had been up just a little bit prior because I could smell his cigarette smoke. I am not dumb... I figure he got up and threw all of his bottles/booze away and then went back to bed. So he finally got up and helped us load. He seemed fine. We moved him to the new place. I told him how he could get a 2nd job to help with his credit card bills since he can walk to how many places near the new place. Of course he got angry and asked me if I ever worked 2 jobs and how I don't know what that is like... Well, I do work about 50 hours a week and when they were little I did that as well plus took them to their practices, etc. He is a smart ass. So with that I said "Well, I am not co-signing another lease so you will have to figure something out. That lit him up. I told him to get a roommate then to split the costs. He then mumbled about having no money so I asked him how much he spent at the weed store the other day?? No answer. Later in the day I asked him about an addiction psychiatrist and if he ever thought about seeing one. He said he would like to because he feels there is definitely something wrong with his brain. He said his thoughts are terrible. I did check his phone records and yesterday (the day he went back to his apartment because he said he wasn't doing well in his head) and then we went for some things he needed... I seen he called the gun store. It scares me. I don't let on that I check his phone records. My counselor said I should not let him know. However, I would like to ask him about it. I figured after we left him tonight at his new place he went for some booze. he wasn't complaining of withdrawals so I know I am correct. We are here for one more day- he works tomorrow so we won't see him until later. As much as I don't like being here, it is always extremely hard to leave because I fear he will take his life. I fear something will happen to him. I can't live like this anymore. I need to move on. I cry when I think of him alone at the upcoming holidays and pray he finds someone to share them with. My husband is tired of this as well. My daughter gets upset that we seem to come out to him and he doesn't appreciate us. Thank you for all of your advice. It is appreciated. [/QUOTE]
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