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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 661729" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>Oh JKF, I'm sorry your heart is hurting tonight.</p><p></p><p>You are being much, MUCH too hard on yourself. You are leaving out the 2nd half of all of those sentences.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>because when she has allowed him to stay in her safe, secure home he has made it impossible for any of his own family members to feel safe or secure.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>or a measly $1 or a hefty $100,000 because her son repeatedly broke the law and she knows that he is where he needs to be right now, and she knows that bailing him out doesn't solve anything.</p><p></p><p>His bad choices have NOTHING to do with you, and it is OK that you don't visit him in jail, or anywhere else, where you are expected to make nice faces and act as if nothing is wrong, not to mention fend off the manipulation.</p><p></p><p>You were and are a wise, loving mother to BOTH of your sons. I don't even know you, but I know that much just from following your story.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 661729, member: 17720"] Oh JKF, I'm sorry your heart is hurting tonight. You are being much, MUCH too hard on yourself. You are leaving out the 2nd half of all of those sentences. because when she has allowed him to stay in her safe, secure home he has made it impossible for any of his own family members to feel safe or secure. or a measly $1 or a hefty $100,000 because her son repeatedly broke the law and she knows that he is where he needs to be right now, and she knows that bailing him out doesn't solve anything. His bad choices have NOTHING to do with you, and it is OK that you don't visit him in jail, or anywhere else, where you are expected to make nice faces and act as if nothing is wrong, not to mention fend off the manipulation. You were and are a wise, loving mother to BOTH of your sons. I don't even know you, but I know that much just from following your story. [/QUOTE]
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