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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 750575" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>You are blessed with an amazing support system. You can and will survive this. Giving your sons money won't help them. Nor ironically does it help to give them shelter. We bought Kay a house then a mobile home when the house went south then rentals then many cars, all wrecked. We are pretty broke.</p><p></p><p>Its not your battle to win or lose.You have no way to fix it. Intellectually you know this. It is very hard to accept that anything we do is never enough. I have cried tears until I have none left. I am sure you tried to save your ex. I would have. But I know from years of stories heard in Al Anon and Codependent Anonymous that what we do changes nothing. Heard no good outcomes from our help if the child or spouse or other loved one won't accept the challenge of doing the massive work to quit. They have to want to or they won't. This includes even our most precious people. I am just repeating what you already know.</p><p></p><p>We all try. And it hurts. And we all know it.</p><p></p><p>Prayers for all of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 750575, member: 23706"] You are blessed with an amazing support system. You can and will survive this. Giving your sons money won't help them. Nor ironically does it help to give them shelter. We bought Kay a house then a mobile home when the house went south then rentals then many cars, all wrecked. We are pretty broke. Its not your battle to win or lose.You have no way to fix it. Intellectually you know this. It is very hard to accept that anything we do is never enough. I have cried tears until I have none left. I am sure you tried to save your ex. I would have. But I know from years of stories heard in Al Anon and Codependent Anonymous that what we do changes nothing. Heard no good outcomes from our help if the child or spouse or other loved one won't accept the challenge of doing the massive work to quit. They have to want to or they won't. This includes even our most precious people. I am just repeating what you already know. We all try. And it hurts. And we all know it. Prayers for all of you. [/QUOTE]
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