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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 750635" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>So I don't really know how my ex-husband is doing. My younger son who has been with him has all of a sudden stopped replying to my texts. It's hard after 30 years of marriage to not care how someone is doing. I don't hate him, I hate the disease. I tried for years and year and years to get him sober. I was in utter and sheer exhaustion mentally, emotionally and physically. That's when I knew I had to stop and take care of me. I will leave him in God's hands where he belongs.</p><p></p><p>Funny enough though, the son who claimed his car would be repo'd by the 7th and wanted me to come up with $595 (the amount increased daily it seemed) recently responded that he only had to pay $137/month and hold on to your hats...he started a job this past Monday! He "says" he's still out of gas and walking to work until pay day in a couple of weeks. I reply to none of this. What it has shown me is that he will say anything to get what he wants and to try to cause me guilt about his life. I know this job could last no more than a hot minute but I feel like by refraining financially he "might" think twice about quitting this job because he knows I'm not giving him any money. </p><p></p><p>I will continue to keep my distance so I can focus on me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 750635, member: 23405"] So I don't really know how my ex-husband is doing. My younger son who has been with him has all of a sudden stopped replying to my texts. It's hard after 30 years of marriage to not care how someone is doing. I don't hate him, I hate the disease. I tried for years and year and years to get him sober. I was in utter and sheer exhaustion mentally, emotionally and physically. That's when I knew I had to stop and take care of me. I will leave him in God's hands where he belongs. Funny enough though, the son who claimed his car would be repo'd by the 7th and wanted me to come up with $595 (the amount increased daily it seemed) recently responded that he only had to pay $137/month and hold on to your hats...he started a job this past Monday! He "says" he's still out of gas and walking to work until pay day in a couple of weeks. I reply to none of this. What it has shown me is that he will say anything to get what he wants and to try to cause me guilt about his life. I know this job could last no more than a hot minute but I feel like by refraining financially he "might" think twice about quitting this job because he knows I'm not giving him any money. I will continue to keep my distance so I can focus on me. [/QUOTE]
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