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Help! Fiance Continues to Enable Her Daughter
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 747949" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Frustrated</p><p></p><p>Welcome and you have gotten great advice and lots to think about.</p><p></p><p>Copa brought up some good points as well that you may not have thought of.</p><p></p><p>Basically you are not able to change another person. YOU cannot change your fiancee and your fiancee cannot change her daughter.</p><p></p><p>I would be stressed beyond belief if I were going to marry someone with all this "stuff" going on. Marriage is hard enough. Will it ever be perfect? No. But if it's making you ill then it's not something that you can deal with.</p><p></p><p>Does it have to be all or nothing? What if you just put everything on hold for a while? I'd do that before I'd get married knowing there are so many things going on that you have no control over. Your whole marriage will be about what she is doing or not doing for her daughter. Yuck. </p><p></p><p>Life's too short.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 747949, member: 15032"] Frustrated Welcome and you have gotten great advice and lots to think about. Copa brought up some good points as well that you may not have thought of. Basically you are not able to change another person. YOU cannot change your fiancee and your fiancee cannot change her daughter. I would be stressed beyond belief if I were going to marry someone with all this "stuff" going on. Marriage is hard enough. Will it ever be perfect? No. But if it's making you ill then it's not something that you can deal with. Does it have to be all or nothing? What if you just put everything on hold for a while? I'd do that before I'd get married knowing there are so many things going on that you have no control over. Your whole marriage will be about what she is doing or not doing for her daughter. Yuck. Life's too short. [/QUOTE]
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