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Help! Son with Anti-Social Person. Disorder
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 603511" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Hello and welcome!</p><p></p><p>I wanted to add that too many of us have this vision of our kids alone in the dark and rain with a sad, pathetic, clueless look on their face and only a meager few possessions in a box to comfort them...</p><p></p><p>The reality is often that our kids are clever, resourceful, and instead of sad and clueless - they will be the first to treat us with anger and contempt as they declare that they don't need any suggestions from us as to where to stay or what to do because they have TONS of friends who will gladly take them in (so there!).</p><p></p><p>I second the suggestion to put everything in writing. Short and simple is best. Make sure there is no extraneous language that could possibly be twisted by your child.</p><p></p><p>Then, prepare yourself for your son to try to instigate a conflict. He's going to want to make sure he gets to storm away in a huff, slamming the door behind him, leaving YOU (the horrible, abusive, unfair person that you are) to feel badly about what you have done to HIM. This (to him) is going to be far preferable to you actually getting to ask him to leave...</p><p></p><p>Just be ready.</p><p></p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 603511, member: 6546"] Hello and welcome! I wanted to add that too many of us have this vision of our kids alone in the dark and rain with a sad, pathetic, clueless look on their face and only a meager few possessions in a box to comfort them... The reality is often that our kids are clever, resourceful, and instead of sad and clueless - they will be the first to treat us with anger and contempt as they declare that they don't need any suggestions from us as to where to stay or what to do because they have TONS of friends who will gladly take them in (so there!). I second the suggestion to put everything in writing. Short and simple is best. Make sure there is no extraneous language that could possibly be twisted by your child. Then, prepare yourself for your son to try to instigate a conflict. He's going to want to make sure he gets to storm away in a huff, slamming the door behind him, leaving YOU (the horrible, abusive, unfair person that you are) to feel badly about what you have done to HIM. This (to him) is going to be far preferable to you actually getting to ask him to leave... Just be ready. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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