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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 704081" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Your ex is TEXTING you about destroying evidence?? Either he is totally confident about your compliance with his wishes and absolutely arrogant that things will go his way or his is an absolute idiot. Personally, idiot seems to be my opinion. Because for the police to NOT get involved, and to NOT check the phone accounts of all adults and children involved, esp of those who provided funding (read the adult who provided the credit card used - your ex) would be ridiculous and the most sloppy investigation ever. Even some of the small town cops that I have met wouldn't make that mistake, and esp not on an investigation with this type of crime. </p><p></p><p>It seems to me he may be trying to text you these types of things either out of panic, which is possible but the dumbest thing he could do as you cannot just delete texts. They are stored on servers somewhere. The other thing is that he is trying to set you up, wanting to be able to later claim that you initiated the discussions about destroying evidence. Either way, it seems like a stupid and highly improbably scheme of his and I hope he hangs himself. </p><p></p><p>I don't truly wish harm on him. I just want him out of the way so that he won't keep your son from getting whatever help may be possible. I don't know if help is truly available, but you must try. I know you ARE trying, and having your son with him is the option available at this time until the authorities do what they can. I have been in a situation with having to protect my children from another one of my children and sometimes there is great urgency and no great option so you do what you must. But in the long run, having your ex run interference or give conflicting messages to your son could cause problems with the therapy. If he gets into legal trouble for trying to cover things up, it would at least send a message to your son that consequences apply and are worse if you lie and try to destroy the evidence. Plus it would show that your husband was not involved. </p><p></p><p>This is going to be a difficult week as the CPS interviews start, and as the police are involved. Please take care of yourselves and be sure to talk to your attorney about the best strategies for handling the CPS interviews while protecting your children. Some CPS interviewers are very inexperienced and are not the best at what they do. You should at least ask the attorney what your children should do if they feel the CPS rep is blaming them for what their brother did in ANY way, or if they feel they are being blamed for his actions or their rights are being ignored. It can be hard to deal with CPS as their powers are great and their rules nebulous, but this is why you ask the attorney what the kids should do if they feel uncomfortable with the interviewer and/or what is going on in the interview.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 704081, member: 1233"] Your ex is TEXTING you about destroying evidence?? Either he is totally confident about your compliance with his wishes and absolutely arrogant that things will go his way or his is an absolute idiot. Personally, idiot seems to be my opinion. Because for the police to NOT get involved, and to NOT check the phone accounts of all adults and children involved, esp of those who provided funding (read the adult who provided the credit card used - your ex) would be ridiculous and the most sloppy investigation ever. Even some of the small town cops that I have met wouldn't make that mistake, and esp not on an investigation with this type of crime. It seems to me he may be trying to text you these types of things either out of panic, which is possible but the dumbest thing he could do as you cannot just delete texts. They are stored on servers somewhere. The other thing is that he is trying to set you up, wanting to be able to later claim that you initiated the discussions about destroying evidence. Either way, it seems like a stupid and highly improbably scheme of his and I hope he hangs himself. I don't truly wish harm on him. I just want him out of the way so that he won't keep your son from getting whatever help may be possible. I don't know if help is truly available, but you must try. I know you ARE trying, and having your son with him is the option available at this time until the authorities do what they can. I have been in a situation with having to protect my children from another one of my children and sometimes there is great urgency and no great option so you do what you must. But in the long run, having your ex run interference or give conflicting messages to your son could cause problems with the therapy. If he gets into legal trouble for trying to cover things up, it would at least send a message to your son that consequences apply and are worse if you lie and try to destroy the evidence. Plus it would show that your husband was not involved. This is going to be a difficult week as the CPS interviews start, and as the police are involved. Please take care of yourselves and be sure to talk to your attorney about the best strategies for handling the CPS interviews while protecting your children. Some CPS interviewers are very inexperienced and are not the best at what they do. You should at least ask the attorney what your children should do if they feel the CPS rep is blaming them for what their brother did in ANY way, or if they feel they are being blamed for his actions or their rights are being ignored. It can be hard to deal with CPS as their powers are great and their rules nebulous, but this is why you ask the attorney what the kids should do if they feel uncomfortable with the interviewer and/or what is going on in the interview. [/QUOTE]
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