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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 705052" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>I am a special education teacher and have taught, still teach plenty of students with high functioning autism/Asperger's. Before I obtained my teaching license I worked as an assistant at a locked home for young men with sexually problematic behavior.</p><p></p><p>Your son, if these accusations are all true, has a paraphilia in addition to his learning and behavior differences. This has nothing to do with his autism diagnosis. It is a separate thing much like hair and eye color are separate things. I am not surprised the school is not acknowledging the paraphilia as it does not fall under their umbrella therapeutically speaking. This type of thing requires highly specialized treatment that they cannot offer. They must feel that their level of supervision allows him to remain there safely.</p><p></p><p>Don't fall for the gaslighting by your ex husband and son. As so many others have already counseled, your son is dangerously mentally ill and needs to be isolated from others, particularly children to whom he may be attracted. If your ex husband drops your son off at your home, I would call the police immediately and have him handed over into their custody. Given the police reports of this situation I am sure all would agree he cannot be in your home with younger siblings he has served on a platter to pedophiles. And don't tell your ex husband this. Don't engage with him. Just do it and let him find out from the proper authorities.</p><p></p><p>I am concerned he might be planning to make a run for it with your son on this out of state vacation. He knows the seriousness of the situation your kid is facing. I might report this to the cops both in your local jurisdiction and the jurisdiction to which he claims to be traveling so they can keep an eye on him.</p><p></p><p>None of this is your fault; some people are just too ill to function in society. I am sorry your boy is so deeply broken at this point and I hope he will get therapy.</p><p></p><p>Do your best to have a happy holiday with your other children. I am so sorry for your pain at this time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 705052, member: 13303"] I am a special education teacher and have taught, still teach plenty of students with high functioning autism/Asperger's. Before I obtained my teaching license I worked as an assistant at a locked home for young men with sexually problematic behavior. Your son, if these accusations are all true, has a paraphilia in addition to his learning and behavior differences. This has nothing to do with his autism diagnosis. It is a separate thing much like hair and eye color are separate things. I am not surprised the school is not acknowledging the paraphilia as it does not fall under their umbrella therapeutically speaking. This type of thing requires highly specialized treatment that they cannot offer. They must feel that their level of supervision allows him to remain there safely. Don't fall for the gaslighting by your ex husband and son. As so many others have already counseled, your son is dangerously mentally ill and needs to be isolated from others, particularly children to whom he may be attracted. If your ex husband drops your son off at your home, I would call the police immediately and have him handed over into their custody. Given the police reports of this situation I am sure all would agree he cannot be in your home with younger siblings he has served on a platter to pedophiles. And don't tell your ex husband this. Don't engage with him. Just do it and let him find out from the proper authorities. I am concerned he might be planning to make a run for it with your son on this out of state vacation. He knows the seriousness of the situation your kid is facing. I might report this to the cops both in your local jurisdiction and the jurisdiction to which he claims to be traveling so they can keep an eye on him. None of this is your fault; some people are just too ill to function in society. I am sorry your boy is so deeply broken at this point and I hope he will get therapy. Do your best to have a happy holiday with your other children. I am so sorry for your pain at this time. [/QUOTE]
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