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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 685284" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My opinion, take it as just one persons opinion too, is that he may have touched your girls and, as close as they may be to you, they may not have told you. We had a foster child who we adopted before finding out he had perped for three years. We made him leave the day we found out and only our very strong family bond kept us together and okay. Lots of free, good therapy offered too and the perp was tried and found guilty of first degree assault of a minor. Hewas only thirteen, but perping on a child six years younger is a crime. He had to sign up as a sexual perpetrator and was locked in a jail type facility for teens. Prosecuting him was not our idea...we just wanted him gone. The DA charged him on their own.</p><p></p><p>Most of all, your girls need him out. Residential care is a good option. Don't ever leave him alone with anyone younger than him and have the girls lock their doors at night. Night is a dangerous time.</p><p></p><p>After what we went through, I'd recommend being overly cautious. Bad things can and may have already happened. My younger kids were too afraid of him to tell us all until he was long gone out of fear he'd carry out threats to kill them or to burn the house down and kill us all. Your son could also get into legal trouble if anything comes to light.</p><p></p><p>Just food for thought. We dissolved our adoption. We had to think first of our other kids who were his terrified victims.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 685284, member: 1550"] My opinion, take it as just one persons opinion too, is that he may have touched your girls and, as close as they may be to you, they may not have told you. We had a foster child who we adopted before finding out he had perped for three years. We made him leave the day we found out and only our very strong family bond kept us together and okay. Lots of free, good therapy offered too and the perp was tried and found guilty of first degree assault of a minor. Hewas only thirteen, but perping on a child six years younger is a crime. He had to sign up as a sexual perpetrator and was locked in a jail type facility for teens. Prosecuting him was not our idea...we just wanted him gone. The DA charged him on their own. Most of all, your girls need him out. Residential care is a good option. Don't ever leave him alone with anyone younger than him and have the girls lock their doors at night. Night is a dangerous time. After what we went through, I'd recommend being overly cautious. Bad things can and may have already happened. My younger kids were too afraid of him to tell us all until he was long gone out of fear he'd carry out threats to kill them or to burn the house down and kill us all. Your son could also get into legal trouble if anything comes to light. Just food for thought. We dissolved our adoption. We had to think first of our other kids who were his terrified victims. [/QUOTE]
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