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Her Reactive Attachment Disorder Will Kill Me
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<blockquote data-quote="Smithmom" data-source="post: 741402" data-attributes="member: 23371"><p>So sorry. At best he could be charged with making threats. But its also worded carefully enough so as not to be an actual death threat. He'll claim he was talking about divine retribution or something. However, sending the cops to his house, creating a police report of the old man and disabled child, could be enough harassment to make him re-think doing it again. And if you create in his mind the idea that you will not be his victim you may dissuade him from doing it again. Sadly I've learned about bullying from both sides with mine. He wants to bully you, the only response is to stand up and fight.</p><p></p><p>I hear you about wanting to escape. But you do love your child. Its dealing with her chaos that you don't love and need to find a new way to handle. From what you've said before you're putting new limits in place and she's fighting those limits. This is part of that fight. This guy is just an expedience to a roof over her head. He won't last long, any more than anyone has before. No doubt he's also hoping for a gravy train. When she becomes more trouble than she's worth, by police at his door for example, he'll kick her out.</p><p></p><p>Down the road, if this relationship doesn't run its natural course, be sure to get her on tape saying the same kinds of things about him. Copies of that will be enough leverage, especially given the age gap and disabilities, to keep him away from you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Smithmom, post: 741402, member: 23371"] So sorry. At best he could be charged with making threats. But its also worded carefully enough so as not to be an actual death threat. He'll claim he was talking about divine retribution or something. However, sending the cops to his house, creating a police report of the old man and disabled child, could be enough harassment to make him re-think doing it again. And if you create in his mind the idea that you will not be his victim you may dissuade him from doing it again. Sadly I've learned about bullying from both sides with mine. He wants to bully you, the only response is to stand up and fight. I hear you about wanting to escape. But you do love your child. Its dealing with her chaos that you don't love and need to find a new way to handle. From what you've said before you're putting new limits in place and she's fighting those limits. This is part of that fight. This guy is just an expedience to a roof over her head. He won't last long, any more than anyone has before. No doubt he's also hoping for a gravy train. When she becomes more trouble than she's worth, by police at his door for example, he'll kick her out. Down the road, if this relationship doesn't run its natural course, be sure to get her on tape saying the same kinds of things about him. Copies of that will be enough leverage, especially given the age gap and disabilities, to keep him away from you. [/QUOTE]
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