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Her Reactive Attachment Disorder Will Kill Me
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 741426" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I dont blame you for the gun. You need to be ready to defend yourself. Its too bad you have to do it. I am truly sorry.</p><p></p><p>I forgot about fetal alcohol syndrome. So many adopted kids are substance exposed. We should be taught how to care for them. There are ways to help, and ways to make things worse. Most professionals have no idea what to do about Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) or damage from substance abuse in utero.</p><p></p><p>But the goal is to place as many kids as possible and being honest, that love doesnt cure all, that some common adoption issues supercede love, would discourage parents from adopting. Not all parents. Just those looking for a probable Brady Bunch outcome with a drug exposed child with a college degree and no interest in his birthparents.</p><p></p><p>I understand the need to place kids who are without a family. But in my opinion the focus should be on those who can SUCCEED in a family setting. And those without behavior problems that can destroy a family. Isnt it their job to find a good match?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 741426, member: 1550"] I dont blame you for the gun. You need to be ready to defend yourself. Its too bad you have to do it. I am truly sorry. I forgot about fetal alcohol syndrome. So many adopted kids are substance exposed. We should be taught how to care for them. There are ways to help, and ways to make things worse. Most professionals have no idea what to do about Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) or damage from substance abuse in utero. But the goal is to place as many kids as possible and being honest, that love doesnt cure all, that some common adoption issues supercede love, would discourage parents from adopting. Not all parents. Just those looking for a probable Brady Bunch outcome with a drug exposed child with a college degree and no interest in his birthparents. I understand the need to place kids who are without a family. But in my opinion the focus should be on those who can SUCCEED in a family setting. And those without behavior problems that can destroy a family. Isnt it their job to find a good match? [/QUOTE]
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