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He's coming home! And I'm both ecstatic and apprehensive
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 742117" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Laura. Hi. I am very sorry it has come to this. I think the only good option for you is to get him on his way.</p><p></p><p>If there is no respect, what is there?</p><p></p><p>You can't be on eggshells in your own home. And your husband did not sign up for this. I agree with you.</p><p></p><p>I am not an attorney and I do not live in your state. But your son just arrived. He is an overnight guest. I do not see how he has any rights. If he continues surly and disrespectful and does not clean up...I know I would feel enraged and put upon, too.</p><p></p><p>I might think about getting a deadbolt or key set for the door which is programmable. All you need to do is change a code to lock somebody out. In your case you may have to speak to the landlord about making the change, but how could they stop you?</p><p></p><p>How could an overnight guest have tenant rights, in any state? I mean that is like the guy who comes to fix the dryer deciding he is a tenant and refusing to leave. Ridiculous. He can't just refuse to leave. Forget about it.</p><p></p><p>From an outsider's perspective, there is no negotiating with him. He has made his plan clear to return to Chicago. You did not sign up to be a pitstop. What about his commitments to you?</p><p></p><p>But even more, it is his attitude. You deserve better. Insist upon it.</p><p></p><p>Anyhow. I am heartbroken about my own situation. Thank you for allowing me respite on your thread.</p><p></p><p>Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 742117, member: 18958"] Laura. Hi. I am very sorry it has come to this. I think the only good option for you is to get him on his way. If there is no respect, what is there? You can't be on eggshells in your own home. And your husband did not sign up for this. I agree with you. I am not an attorney and I do not live in your state. But your son just arrived. He is an overnight guest. I do not see how he has any rights. If he continues surly and disrespectful and does not clean up...I know I would feel enraged and put upon, too. I might think about getting a deadbolt or key set for the door which is programmable. All you need to do is change a code to lock somebody out. In your case you may have to speak to the landlord about making the change, but how could they stop you? How could an overnight guest have tenant rights, in any state? I mean that is like the guy who comes to fix the dryer deciding he is a tenant and refusing to leave. Ridiculous. He can't just refuse to leave. Forget about it. From an outsider's perspective, there is no negotiating with him. He has made his plan clear to return to Chicago. You did not sign up to be a pitstop. What about his commitments to you? But even more, it is his attitude. You deserve better. Insist upon it. Anyhow. I am heartbroken about my own situation. Thank you for allowing me respite on your thread. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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