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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 659148" data-attributes="member: 17461">For all of us SWOT I think, time will heal us.&nbsp; Just to remember what happened, just to understand how wrong so much of it was, is a gift to us.&nbsp; We have time, now.&nbsp; We are all grown up.&nbsp; We are the ones making the choice, this time.&nbsp; In those times when we were little, we had no choice in the matter at all.I feel so badly about your negative tapes, SWOT.&nbsp; You know in your heart that they are not true assessments.&nbsp; We have lived our lives with those words and phrases echoing in our heads.&nbsp; The damage is done, for us.&nbsp; But we can see, in the evidence of our lives, that these things our mothers told us were not true things, after all.They were never true.Isn't that something.&nbsp; Imagine our lives without these kinds of trauma, without such heavy burdens of shame. That's where we are going to be when we are finished.&nbsp; Nice and free and easy and kind and never ashamed over anything we haven't done, ever again.Cedar</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 659148, member: 17461"] For all of us SWOT I think, time will heal us. Just to remember what happened, just to understand how wrong so much of it was, is a gift to us. We have time, now. We are all grown up. We are the ones making the choice, this time. In those times when we were little, we had no choice in the matter at all. I feel so badly about your negative tapes, SWOT. You know in your heart that they are not true assessments. We have lived our lives with those words and phrases echoing in our heads. The damage is done, for us. But we can see, in the evidence of our lives, that these things our mothers told us were not true things, after all. They were never true. Isn't that something. Imagine our lives without these kinds of trauma, without such heavy burdens of shame. That's where we are going to be when we are finished. Nice and free and easy and kind and never ashamed over anything we haven't done, ever again. Cedar [/QUOTE]

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