Copa, I call it oblivion. I don't just go no contact. I do oblivion, meaning I can't even cheat and look at their social media. It triggers me.
Copa, you did NOTHING wrong. NOTHING. Your sister is a leech, maybe antisocial, a scary person and you SHOULD listen to M. and guard yourself. Your sister loves NOTHING and NOBODY except money. How could her horrendous, coldhearted, soulless behavior be YOUR fault???
Honestly, after reading that I thanked my Higher Power that my sister is more harmlessly mean to me and is not a threat to my health, well being or money (not that I have much). But your sister almost makes me think mine isn't so bad...lol. I don't fear her. I just don't want to know her. Big difference.
Please stay safe and listen to M. Don't let her know anything about you, especially relating to money. I don't care how badly I think my mother treated me. It never crossed my mind to try to STEAL from her. This is big time crime and there is no wiggle room for your sister to charm her way out of it.
Moral people do not steal.
Not from anybody. Especially not from the weak and vulnerable, but not from anyone. Nobody.
Copa, I have come to care for you a lot in our postings. I'm sure Cedar does too. Please watch your back.
I'm going to give you a cyber-hug. I hope that's ok .
